What is going on.

Sandee,thank you for posting the Wednesday’s Hero, and for moderating the comments. I think I owe my visitors an explanation as to what is going on. This week has not been fun. Sunday my water heater went out. Yesterday(Tuesday) I was DISINVITED TO A CHRISTENING .  The hosts feared my Seizures would cause”upset”for some of the other guests.This is a huge slap in my face and a stab in my back at the same time, it really hurts to be shunned again. This is why I lost my interest in blogging, visiting and even dropping my entrecard on fellow entrecard bloggers. I am deeply hurt and very depressed.  


THIS POSTING HAS BEEN ALTERED AND SOME COMMENTS DELETED DUE TO THE DEMANDS OF THE “OFFENDED” PARTIES.

12 Comments on “What is going on.

  1. So sorry to hear of your difficulties. Keeping you from the christening does not sound right at all. I'd be very hurt too! Please get help with your depression if you need it. Sometimes it's good to talk with a counselor.

  2. I am so sorry you have been so deeply hurt. I would have been crushed too. Don't be afraid to seek help with the depression. Depression can drain the life from you. Warm thought sent your way.

  3. I'm so sorry about all of this Mike. You would think in this day and age that people would understand about seizures. There is nothing to be 'weirded out' about. You just make sure the person having the seizures doesn't injure themselves. I just don't get it. Then to invite your wife and exclude you is inexcusable. I'm so sorry that this has happened to you. Big hug to you both.

  4. I'm sorry about that Mike. It's hard not to feel bad about this. Many times things like this remind me that shortcomings in me and others are still very prevalent. Take care.

  5. Syd and Kathy M.the sad thing is that they do not realize that they are doing that,and when it is pointed out they get indignate about it.That I'm hurting them.

  6. I'm so sorry Mike. I think this is very hurtful, and to say Celestine could come and not you is even worse.That being said – you really are the bigger person. You deal with these seizures all the time and you still live your life. You were willing to go out the the Christening, in spite of the fact that a seizure might happen. That takes a pretty big man! They are losing out, and if they continue in this path, they will be teaching the baby the wrong things too. Hang in there – we love you!

  7. Mari,I believe that they will answer to God for the good and the bad that they have done on this Earth just as I do and every one else does as well.\”Let Go,Let God.\”I learned that in an A.A. meeting.

  8. Mike, I'm so sorry to hear about this. It's a shame that they place someone else's feelings over yours. Hang in there and I hope you feel better soon.

  9. Mike – I am so deeply hurt and upset that you would even think that we did not want you there. By a post that you put out there last week about the seizures you had here alone when there were only 5 people at my house, you admit that your seizures are out of hand. I had also offered to you (which you didn't bother to post) that I had invited you and Cel over for lunch so that we could take your picture with the baby. So your bloggers now feel that we didn't want you there and we were \”wierded\” out. There was a young family that was also attending the baptism…imagine how those little children would have been scared….not to mention that the restaurant would for sure have called 911 upon the first indcation of one of your seizures. I have witnessed many of them and you know yourself how difficult it is for Cel to even assist you during your seizures. I find it very hurtful that your bloggers would think that Allesan is an unfit mother and then to mention her full name. I ask that you retract your comments (or delete them, even better).

  10. Grandma Sandy AKA My Sister,I modified the posting that does not change the FACT THAT YOU UNINVITED ME AND HURT ME DEEPLY.

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